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Co-parenting Without Court Parent & Parent / Child Classes

This co-parenting course is designed to help you be the best parent you can be under the circumstances you are in. It can be helpful to any parent, but it specifically covers issues for parents going through a separation or divorce, and it will especially help you manage or avoid high conflict issues. We have uniquely combined 2 courses to be taken one after the other. First you will learn the New Ways for Families method and then you will take a course, together with your child/ren, and teach them the 4 Big Skills. TOTAL 16 hours of online classes. Self-directed.

$87.00 USD BEST SELLER

How to Write a BIFF Response®

BIFF Communication is a way to effectively communicate with your former partner via text, email, social media and in writing. BIFF will reduce the back and forth barrage, and will help you to communicate without the continuous explosions erupting that cause you to feel anxious and exhausted. We cover some of the most common areas of coparent communication and potential conflict. By the end you will have this simple method clear in your mind and should be ready for almost any situation.

$47.00 USD

CoParenting Conflict Playbook

This co-parenting course is designed to help you be the best parent you can be under the circumstances you are in. It can be helpful to any parent, but it specifically covers issues for parents going through a separation or divorce, and it will especially help you manage or avoid high conflict issues. The CoParenting Conflict Playbook is designed to take in your own time and is self-paced. There are 12 x 1 hour online, self-directed classes. You will learn some invaluable skills to use from now on and into the future. It will reduce your stress levels, gain back some sanity and give you strategies to apply to your situation.

Playbook: 4 Big Skills™

People with high conflict tendencies cause tremendous frustration, anger and angst. We dread being in conflict with them. But there is hope! This course starts with the foundation required to effectively manage relationships with the most difficult people, starting with understanding the high conflict cycle of thinking (it's all in the brain). Learning the 4 BIG SKILLS to manage your interactions will be a life saver. It requires doing the opposite of what you usually do and what you feel like doing. You won't regret learning the 4 BIG SKILLS. Your stress will decrease and confidence will increase.

$47.00 USD

1000 Little Bricks

This playbook addresses the concerns of parents and family members dealing with a difficult or “high-conflict” parent in a divorce. For parents, this playbook gives a foundation for assisting a child during the divorce process – or at any time – without getting emotionally “hooked” by a high-conflict parent, whether or not they have a personality disorder or traits and characteristics of a personality disorder. You will learn 'What to Avoid' and What to Do'. We teach you to build a pathway of resilience for your children. Setting them up for a positive future that is filled with love, support, encouragement from their parents and family.

$47.00 USD

High Conflict Separation and Divorce 13 Part Series (Audio)

The 13 part series is for separating or divorcing parents, and for professionals who want to know more about the most important issues that parents deal with in high-conflict divorce and separation, and co-parenting with a high-conflict parent. The sessions will help you understand what’s going on in the other person’s mind and how to manage the relationship. Information is provided on how to do the opposite of what you’re used to doing – a must when dealing with a high-conflict person. Financial info (child support & asset division) is included, along with info for grandparents.

GREAT VALUE $99.95 USD

BOOK - BEST SELLER Splitting: Protecting Yourself While Divorcing Someone with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Divorce is difficult under the best of circumstances. When your spouse has borderline personality disorder (BPD), narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), or is manipulative, divorcing can be especially complicated. While people with these tendencies may initially appear convincing and even charming to lawyers and judges, you know better-many of these “persuasive blamers” leverage false accusations, attempt to manipulate others, launch verbal and physical attacks, and do everything they can to get their way.

$18.95 USD

MUST READ - BIFF for Co-Parents: Your Guide to Difficult Texts, Emails, and Social Media Posts

This third book in the BIFF Conflict Communication series is especially devoted to parents dealing with issues in and after separation and divorce as they co-parent their children, complete with instructions in the four-step BIFF method and numerous examples for dealing with co-parent situations. BIFF is a game-changer in written communication. Reduce the back and forth text war. Reduce your stress and anxiety every time you see 'their' name on your screen. Learning to compose a BIFF Response is a 'MUST HAVE' tool for every parent. Also available as an on-demand playbook (course)

$15.95 USD

High Conflict CoParenting Survival Guide: Reclaim Your Life One Week at a Time

Divorce is hard enough even in the best of circumstances—high-conflict divorce is just about the most devastating, soul-wrecking experience imaginable. High-conflict divorce is just about the most devastating, soul-wrecking experience imaginable. The unrelenting chaos and pain can leave you exhausted and despairing. How can you keep it all together? This book, complete with a weekly planner, offers hope and a wealth of advice to help you become a healthy parent so you’ll be better able to help your children. Calm the storm and get your confidence back. Week by week, the authors guide you in taking care of yourself while navigating conflict.

$25.95 USD

BOOK - So, What's Your Proposal?

With high-conflict people increasing in society, the 24-hour news cycle, and social media, we are continually barraged with the worst behaviors of other people. The strong temptation is to react, defend yourself and blame them back. Instead, consider the simple So, What’s Your Proposal? method for pulling them out of the past and away from blaming everyone else. Proposals are a very quick way to problem solve. One issue with high conflict people is that they blame. By making proposals this takes the blame and turns it into 'a problem to solve'! Proposals are future focused and will help you stay calm and confident. Use this method when faced with a decision to make with a difficult, challenging or blaming person.

$14.95 USD

BOOK - Dating Radar: Why Your Brain Says Yes to "The One" Who Will Make Your Life Hell

Why do so many of us commit to the wrong person – maybe more than once? Most believe that attraction and compatibility are the keys to relationship success when, in reality, these are red flags in 15-20% of the population. When it comes to love, the brain is irrational and short-sighted. We make decisions based on incomplete information, biased understanding, and strong emotion. Love truly is blind. This book gives you a way to detect hazards you might otherwise miss by recognizing: Warning signs of certain personalities that can spell love relationship danger and where your own blind spots might be!

$16.95 USD

BOOK - Don't Alienate the Kids: Raising Resilient Children While Avoiding High Conflict Divorce

In this tenth anniversary edition of Don’t Alienate the Kids! Attorney, mediator, and therapist Bill Eddy shows readers how to protect children from the harm of alienation and high conflict divorce, boosting their resilience by teaching them to think flexibly, manage their emotions, and moderate their behaviors. During a high-conflict divorce or separation, kids can develop lifelong habits of all-or-nothing thinking, unregulated emotions, and extreme behaviors. This book shows how parents, family members, friends, counselors, lawyers, parenting coordinators, divorce coaches, and family court judges can become part of the solution, giving children a foundation of resilience that will last a lifetime.

$16.95 USD

CANADA: New Ways for Families® CoParenting

This co-parenting course is designed to help you be the best parent you can be under the circumstances you are in. It can be helpful to any parent, but it specifically covers issues for parents going through a separation or divorce, and it will especially help you manage or avoid high conflict issues. Even if you have a very difficult co-parent, there are strategies you will learn in this course that will be invaluable as you journey into New Ways of parenting.

$67.00 CAD

AUSTRALIA: Post Separation Parenting Without Conflict

New Ways for Families® is a self-paced online post separation parenting course. It comes with a self-reflection journal to help you to learn and apply the 4 big skills of post-separation parenting. You will understand how and why conflict can harm your child and what you can do to work with your other parent to help prevent it. Even if you have a very difficult co-parent there are strategies you will learn in this course which can help.

$95.00 AUD

SCOTLAND: Shared Parenting New Ways for Families®

This co-parenting course is designed to help you be the best parent you can be under the circumstances you are in. It can be helpful to any parent, but it specifically covers issues for parents going through a separation or divorce, and it will especially help you manage or avoid high conflict issues. Even if you have a very difficult co-parent, there are strategies you will learn in this course that will be invaluable as you journey into New Ways of parenting.

Prossimamente Tradotto in Italiano Corso di CoParenting

Questo corso di co-genitorialità è progettato per aiutarti a essere il miglior genitore che puoi essere nelle circostanze in cui ti trovi. Può essere utile a qualsiasi genitore, ma copre specificamente i problemi per i genitori che attraversano una separazione o un divorzio, e in particolare aiutarti a gestire o evitare problemi di conflitto elevato. Anche se hai un co-genitore molto difficile, ci sono strategie che imparerai in questo corso che saranno inestimabili mentre viaggi nei Nuovi Modi di genitorialità. Corso post-separazione online di autoapprendimento.

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Crianza sin conflictos

Clase de crianza compartida para familias potencialmente conflictivas. Estas habilidades para la vida les enseñan a los padres cómo manejar las emociones para proteger a sus hijos durante la transición y el avance. El objetivo de esta clase es proporcionar herramientas para los padres que se beneficiarían de aprender a controlar las emociones y comunicarse de manera saludable, segura y beneficiosa. Enseñe habilidades de resolución de problemas para resolver de manera efectiva los desacuerdos sobre la crianza compartida mientras mantiene la calma y protege a sus hijos de los conflictos.

139.99

בקרוב תורגם בעברית: דרכים חדשות למשפחות ® שיתוף הורות

קורס זה של הורות משותפת נועד לעזור לך להיות ההורה הכי טוב שאתה יכול להיות בנסיבות שאתה נמצא. זה יכול להועיל לכל הורה, אך הוא מכסה באופן ספציפי נושאים להורים שעוברים פרידה או גירושין, וזה במיוחד לעזור לך לנהל או להימנע מבעיות סכסוך גבוהות. גם אם יש לך הורה משותף קשה מאוד, ישנן אסטרטגיות שתלמד בקורס זה שלא יסולא בפז בעת שתסע בדרכים חדשות של הורות. גם אם יש לך הורה משותף קשה מאוד, ישנן אסטרטגיות שתלמד בקורס זה שלא יסולא בפז בעת שתסע בדרכים חדשות של הורות. קורס הורות מקוון להפרדת פוסטים בקצב עצמי.

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New Ways for Families®: Parent Workbook (digital version)

$19.95 USD

New Ways for Work Workbook (digital version)

$12.95 USD

New Ways for Families®: Decision Skills Class Workbook (digital version)

$12.95 USD

New Ways for Families® Pre-Mediation Coaching Workbook (digital version)

$12.95 USD

It's All Your Fault at Work

No, it’s not just your imagination—more and more people in the workplace today have high-conflict personalities. Co-workers, clients, even bosses are behaving in narcissistic or bullying ways, choosing targets and then placing blame on them, treating them with disdain, or otherwise acting in aggressive, inappropriate ways. Some go so far as to spread damaging rumors, harass, or directly sabotage their targets, among other extreme behaviors. they can make your life at work stressful, frustrating, and extremely challenging. This book will unravel and assist you to make sense of what is going on in your workplace!

$19.95 USD

BIFF Response® at Work

BIFF Response® at Work: Your Guide to Difficult Workplace Communication. Hostile emails, letters and conversations can drain inordinate amounts of time, emotional energy and expense in the workplace. For over a dozen years, the BIFF method of conflict communication has helped thousands of people calm conflicts and create clear communication in response to misinformation, blame, and unnecessary anger in writing or in-person. This new book focuses exclusively on workplace conflicts, using the four-step method with numerous examples of what works and what does not work to demonstrate potential pitfalls.

$15.95 USD

So, What's Your Proposal?

Blame is abundant these days! Every day people confront us at work, (at the store, at home, in our communities and online too.) Nerves get on edge. More and more people get stuck blaming others for anything that goes wrong: Especially in the workplace. With high-conflict people increasing in society, the 24-hour news cycle, and social media, we are continually barraged with the worst behaviors of other people. The strong temptation is to react, defend yourself and blame them back. Instead, consider the simple 'So, What’s Your Proposal?' method for pulling them out of the past and away from blaming everyone else.

$14.95 USD