Explore Co-Parent Playbooks
Select a single playbook or the recommended package for parents dealing with high conflict co-parenting.
New Ways for Families® Playbook
Designed for high conflict divorce and co-parenting but great for all co-parents.
A 12-session online course (approx 1 hour per session = 12 hours approx) created by high conflict expert, Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq., that focuses on learning simple but effective skills to manage conflicts, negotiate decisions, communicate in the face of the storm, deal with manipulation, encourage yourself in times of stress, reduce the impact of conflict on children, and co-parent more effectively.
Learn the skills and apply them in challenging, inflammatory situations when dealing with your co-parent. Your confidence will increase and your stress will decrease.Purchase $47 USD
New Ways for Families
Parent + Child Playbook
Same playbook as above with the addition of 4 sessions for the kids to take along with their parent.
12 sessions for parents
4 sessions for parents + kids
As a parent, we want to be the best role model that we can be. Master the New Ways for Families skills and then teach them to your kids. After you complete the 12 Parent Sessions, you and your children can begin right away on the four Parent-Child sessions.
Learn the skills, then teach the skills. This will also reinforce your own learning, putting everyone on the same page.Purchase $87 USD
Critical Written Communication Playbook
The solution for communicating in writing with your co-parent.
Tired of receiving never-ending hostile, blaming emails, DMs, and texts? This playbook will help get your communications with your co-parent under control by learning a simple little technique called BIFF: Brief, Informative, Friendly, and Firm.
BIFF contains and de-escalates conflict and stops or at least slows down the barrage.
Join thousands of parents who have experienced relief from using BIFF.Purchase $47 USD
Critical Verbal Communication Playbook
The solution for communicating verbally with your co-parent.
Faced with draining and chaotic conversations with your co-parent that are filled with blame, verbal venting usually fills parents with dread. Yet, they can usually be calmed immediately with our simple EAR Statement technique. This playbook will help you learn to use statements containing Empathy, Attention, and/or Respect. It works wonders in seconds. It's a game-changer.
EAR Statements are what all people are looking for, especially when upset or in a conflict.
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High Conflict Separation and Divorce 13 Part Audio Series
The series is for separating or divorcing parents, and for professionals who want to know more about the most important issues that parents deal with in high-conflict divorce and separation, and co-parenting with a high-conflict parent. Listen while at work, rest or play.Purchase $99.95 USD
Learning the 4 Big Skills Playbook
Revolutionize your relationship and interactions with a difficult person in your life.
It works well with the most difficult "difficult" people but it works even better with any person who happens to be upset.
This playbook is what you need to build the necessary skills for managing the conflict and managing the relationship. Don't give up hope!Purchase $47 USD
Surviving High-Conflict Divorce Playbook
You can. You can survive and thrive. Learn tips and tools not only for yourself but for your children. We focus on what you can do to manage your own stress and do your part in demonstrating healthy relationship skills with your co-parent—even with a high-conflict co-parent for the sake of your children's healthy brain development. We look at the fallout, your fear, your brain in survival mode, how to communicate better, plus getting unhooked.Purchase $47 USD
Setting Boundaries Playbook
Setting limits and boundaries is the most important and most difficult step in handling High Conflict People. HCPs generally have less self-control, are more impulsive, less aware of the impact of their behavior on others, and often don’t care if their behavior bothers or hurts themselves or anyone else. We give you simple but necessary tools and strategies to set boundaries. You have to set the boundaries because the other person has the inability.Purchase $47 USD
Handling Crisis Moments Playbook
A personal crisis occurs when an individual can no longer cope with a certain situation. This is preceded by events of an extraordinary nature triggering extreme tension and stress within an individual, i.e., the crisis, which then requires major decisions or actions to resolve. This playbook will help you understand and manage your crisis, giving you an understanding of your emotional response. Broken down into four easy to understand modules.Purchase $47 USD
1,000 Little Bricks Playbook
Protect our precious children from the harm of alienation and high-conflict divorce, boost their resilience by teaching them to think flexibly, manage their emotions, and moderate their behaviors. We all know breakups can get really ugly. But sometimes they can get downright vicious, with badmouthing, brainwashing, and allegations of alienation, child abuse and domestic violence, all leading to nasty custody battles. In this online playbook we help you become part of the solution, giving children a foundation of resilience that will last a lifetime.Purchase $47 USD